Bend over. Put your face in the pillow. Stick your ass out. Spread your cheeks. I want to get my dick as far inside you as it will go: all the way in.
The people who fuck in my fantasies are often obsessed with getting it all the way in. And what I mean, of course, is that I have a fixation for dick being shoved all the way in. The size of someone’s cock doesn’t matter – what matters is whether the person fucking with it is as deep as they can possibly get.
In my fantasies, they usually do this by angling the person getting fucked: bending her over a desk with her thighs spread apart, for example. Or lying her on her side, curled into the foetal position on the edge of a pool table with her thighs pressed tight together and her cunt presented neatly in the centre, while each one takes it in turns to slide his dick inside. Sometimes in my fantasies I invent really specific spanking bench set-ups, to allow penetration at the perfect height and angle: bent over and strapped down tight, bum sticking out just far enough that the guy fucking her can spread his legs and plant his feet apart just in front of hers, yanking on straps and belts and her hair in order to maintain his balance. To drive his cock deeper.
To get it all the way in.
In real life, too, I am obsessed with this. That moment when he slams up against me, or simply presses up against me – firmly and slowly – until not a single inch or atom of his dick remains outside my body.
All the way in
What is it about this that makes it so sexy? I’ve always assumed that this ‘all the way in’ thing was more satisfying for my partners than partial insertion, although my assumptions appear to be wrong. You may find it works differently for you, but my current dude explained that as the head is the most sensitive part of his cock, getting penetration right down to the base doesn’t add that much in terms of pure sensation.
But sensation isn’t everything. What makes a particular thing sexy can’t just be reduced to the physical. There’s something about having his dick – his entire dick – inside me that goes beyond the simple thrill of the nerve endings beneath the skin.
The feeling of fucking, or getting fucked, is a delicious combination of the physical and the psychological.
Just the tip?
When I ask to be teased during fucking, it’s often assumed that what I want is some kind of edging sensation: where I’ll get rubbed and fucked until I’m close to coming, then abandoned until I cool off a little, left squirming with frustration that I can’t get orgasmic relief. But in fact the best way to tease me isn’t with promised climaxes or clitoral stimulation, it’s by withholding the satisfaction – the relief – of your dick going all the way in.
If I’m horny enough, my cunt actually hurts. It’s a painful, physical ache, the kind you might get in your muscles the morning after an energetic day. The entrance to my cunt throbs, and the only way to relieve is is to stretch and fill it with cock.
Sometimes when we’re fucking, he’ll start with just the tip. He’ll watch himself playing around the wetness of my vulva, mesmerised by the way the slickness of me transfers to the tip of his cock, dipping himself in and out of my cunt. Not with his whole cock – just an inch or two. Reliving, over and over, that moment reddit documents so eagerly at /r/whenitgoesin.
He’s not so much fucking me as giving me a taste of what fucking might feel like.
In and out. Just the tip. Over and over until I’m squirming.
Slicking the head of his dick against me and inside me until it trails shining liquid down my slit.
Interspersing his short, teasing, just-the-tip strokes with long pauses so he can wait to hear me whimper.
Feeling the ‘pop’ as the ridge at the head of his cock slides past the aching ring of pain that is the entrance to my desperate cunt.
Snatching brief glances at my face as I frown in frustration, and beg him for more than just this. More than the tip. Push harder. Stretch me further. Scratch that itch.
Until eventually, when I’ve waited long enough, and my plaintive mewling turns to guttural (“Fuck me”) demands, he’ll angle his slick cock just right so he can do it in one smooth stroke… before shoving it all the way in.